"... I can not be satisfied if all you know about me is a love of plastic ..."
This morning I woke up in the head with this song. I just love, to loves, fears that are created in the heads and hearts of people when they meet a new potential love ...
Recently I happened to talk to friends and friends who have lost a love, for the most stupid reason ... fear of losing their space ....
Love, seen as sharing, as a union of two souls, great emotion that can rub your eyes, make us weak at the knees, becomes panic, resulting in fear, then failure and escape ...
I can not comprehend: eg
rchè we have all become so cowardly? because it is easier to run than face things directly, talking to the person that we provi
to ...??
All may happen to have a difficult time, their fears appear and make us feel vulnerable, but we should at that time to find the courage to look the person we close, look into her eyes and say, "I'm afraid .. .'m afraid of you, us, of suffering, of what might happen if this becomes an important story, and even if it becomes, I'm afraid of not knowing manage my emotions nor yours, I'm afraid of not being able to love you the way you want and I'm afraid that one day you may be tired of me, or I you, I'm afraid ... "would not be more simple?
Apparently not. The men and women say and do not ever say "I'm afraid." Would you like to be defeated, it would mean admitting their own weaknesses, would be to confess his weakness, his humanity .... the way of escape without explanation is far more simple ... We've all learned "in love ".... wins flees
I remember an old saying but ..." do unto others as would not want done to you "and often, in human relationships, that I forget.
Maybe people just continue to get what you do not want to suffer, because they have already been ... and this becomes an ongoing process that will not stop ever ...
But sometimes we seek to be suffering ....
Carmen sang "I wanted to be stronger than all your doubts" ..
.. how can you love two? Simply can not and should not do it. Often, especially we princesses, we believe that our love is enough for two. We forget our role as a princess, and humble ourselves before the toad that will never be the prince, even with all the kisses in the world .... We must stop believing that Prince Charming will come with the white horse to save us save us from those who ,....? save us from what? ?
On the other hand, even these toads do not understand the principles that should save us all. We do not need to be saved, no place in them all these expectations, we just need to be embraced, loved and look in their eyes ... we need that toad-Prince is sincere to the end and tell us the truth, the whole truth, nothing but the truth ...
Or maybe they think that we must save us from same?
I believe instead that we all need to save each other: the fear of words.
When a woman says to a man who is happy at his side, the meaning is not always "marry me now ".... when a man tells a woman who is excited, does not always mean" I want to marry you now ".. .
begin to think that sometimes words have the meanings more easily and that everything is resolved in the here and now ... no woman wants to put a noose around his neck and take off your space, as no man wants to deprive you of freedom of expression and get married 3 to date ...
learn to feel good in the here and now, we learn to live in the moment and live it well, no, (for us women), build too many castles on and without (for men), having to destroy our every attempt to feel good in your little heads because it means "I'm tying the hands and feet" .... we live now, Let us experience well and, if some fear emerges in our souls, in our head, if there is anything that we did not understand: let's talk together .... will certainly be easier than leaving the cloud of dust and a thousand doubts and concerns ...
